Deciding between nursing home and care home
The terms ‘care home’ and ‘nursing home’ are often used interchangeably, but they’re actually very different levels of care, and choosing between them matters.

This article explains how to recognise when a nursing home may be more suitable than residential care, what to look for in an assessment and how to make an informed decision that fits your loved one’s needs.

How Do I Know if My Loved One Needs a Nursing Home Instead of a Residential Care Home?

Your loved one will need a nursing home if their health requires regular medical supervision or skilled nursing care at all times. Residential care is no longer suitable when medical help is needed throughout the day and night, rather than occasionally.

You might notice, for example, that your loved one:

1. Has a long-term condition that now needs frequent monitoring, such as heart disease, COPD, Parkinson’s, diabetes or dementia

2. Finds it difficult to manage or remember medication

3. Needs nurses or therapists visiting several times each week

4. Has become unsteady on their feet or relies on hoists and mobility aids

5. Needs clinical support such as wound care, catheter management or assisted feeding

6. Has been admitted to the hospital repeatedly or is taking longer to recover after illness

When Residential Care Is Still Suitable

Residential care is a good fit when health is generally stable and medical supervision isn’t needed all day, every day. Regular homes provide structure, companionship, fun and stimulation, as well as help with daily life, without the constant clinical support that nursing homes offer.

Residential care might still be the right choice if your loved one:

  • Manages most tasks independently but needs help with a few daily routines
  • Uses a stick or frame for mobility, yet moves safely around the home
  • Takes regular medication that doesn’t need a nurse to oversee it
  • Is living with mild memory loss or early dementia, but remains engaged and sociable
  • Would benefit from company, shared meals and planned activities rather than constant medical oversight
  • Feels safer having carers nearby to help them when needed

It’s worth noting that some residential homes can adjust the level of help as needs change. They might involve visiting nurses, physiotherapists or other specialists when extra support is needed. For many residents, this flexibility means they can stay in familiar surroundings even as their health shifts over time.

How to Get a Professional Assessment

If you’re unsure whether your loved one needs residential or nursing care, the clearest answer will come from a professional assessment:

Step 1: Contact your local authority
Get in touch with the adult social care department at your local council. Ask for a care needs assessment – it’s free and available to anyone who may need help, even if paying for care privately.

Step 2: Gather background information
Before the assessment, collect details about medication, recent hospital stays, mobility and any current support arrangements. Having this ready helps the assessor understand the full picture.

Step 3: The assessment visit
A social worker or care assessor will meet your loved one, often at home or in hospital, to observe how they manage daily tasks and discuss any difficulties. They may also talk with family members or carers.

Step 4: Review the outcome
You’ll receive a written summary outlining what type of care is recommended and what funding routes might be available. If nursing care is likely, the assessor may refer you for a separate nursing assessment through a GP or NHS team to check eligibility for Continuing Healthcare (commonly known as CHC) funding.

Step 5: Keep everything organised
Keep copies of the assessment and care plan in one place. You’ll need them when visiting care homes or applying for financial support.

Cost and Funding Considerations

In most cases, nursing homes cost more than residential care homes because they employ qualified nurses and provide continuous medical supervision.

Funding can come from a mix of public and private sources. The main options include:

Funding SourceWhat It CoversWho It’s For
Self-fundingYou pay the full cost directly, often from savings or propertyPeople above the local authority financial threshold
Local authority supportContribution towards care home fees after a financial means testThose with limited savings or income
NHS Continuing HealthcareFull funding for care if needs are primarily medicalPeople with complex or severe health conditions
Funded Nursing CareWeekly contribution from the NHS for nursing home residentsThose who don’t qualify for full CHC but still need nursing
Benefits and allowancesExtra financial help, such as Attendance Allowance or Pension CreditThose living in either type of care home

Making the Decision Between the Two

Choosing between a residential care home and a nursing home often becomes easier once assessments and visits are complete. The goal now is to match what you’ve learned about your loved one’s needs with what each home can realistically provide.

Look at the Evidence

It helps to look past first impressions and compare how each home operates day to day.

– Review the written care plans and inspection reports.
– Ask how medication is managed and who oversees medical reviews.
– Find out what happens if health deteriorates or new equipment is needed.
Confirm staff qualifications and whether nurses are on duty overnight.

Balance Practicality and Continuity

A home should meet current health needs and be able to adapt if those needs grow, so consider how easy it would be to add nursing input or arrange outside specialists. Location matters too because being close enough for regular visits can make ongoing involvement simpler.

When you’ve gathered all the details, bring the information together with the care needs and financial assessments. The best decision is usually the one that keeps your loved one safe, medically supported and settled for the long term, ensuring a smooth process during this life-changing time.

Choosing with Confidence

Once you understand your loved one’s medical needs, level of independence and the kind of support available locally, the choice between a nursing home and a residential home becomes much clearer.

As mentioned earlier, if you’re unsure, start with a professional assessment through your local authority or GP.

Taking that step early can prevent rushed decisions later and ensure the proper support is in place when it’s needed most.